• Thoughts on Life

    Exploring Personal Growth Through Dances with Wolves: A Reflection on Empathy, Identity, and Cultural Understanding

    May 6, 2025 - By 

    In the 1990 film Dances with Wolves, adapted from Michael Blake’s novel, Lieutenant John Dunbar embarks on a transformative journey from a disillusioned soldier to a member of the Lakota Sioux tribe. His story isn’t just a tale of survival or adventure; it is an exploration of personal growth, empathy, and the complexities of identity—important lessons for anyone looking to understand their own path toward self-awareness and connection with others. The Power of Empathy: Understanding Beyond the Surface Dunbar’s initial experience with the Sioux tribe is rooted in misunderstanding and fear. The clash of cultures between him, a soldier of…

  • Thoughts on Life

    How I’ve Been Handling Life Thus Far

    April 18, 2025 - By 

    If there is one thread that ties together everything I do, it is curiosity. I’ve always been drawn to questions—about people, about places, about how things work, and most especially, about how we grow. I consider myself a multipassionate individual. I have explored many paths—writing, librarianship, teaching, editing, and creating digital content. Each one has taught me something different, and each one continues to shape who I am. I don’t believe we have to choose just one direction in life. I believe we grow in many directions, sometimes all at once. Learning has always been a constant in my life.…

  • Ceremonies - Energy - Journaling - Rituals - Spirituality

    The Importance of Rituals and Tapping into the Spiritual Collective

    October 6, 2024 - By 

    In our modern world, filled with distractions, obligations, and constant busyness, it’s easy to lose touch with ourselves and the world around us. One of the most profound ways to reconnect with our inner selves—and with something larger than ourselves—is through the practice of rituals. Whether simple or elaborate, rituals create space for us to ground ourselves, reflect, and even tap into the energy of a spiritual collective that exists beyond our individual experience. Why Rituals Matter At their core, rituals serve as a bridge between the mundane and the sacred. They help us set intentions and bring mindful awareness…

  • Diva Mindset - Empath - Empathy

    How to Cultivate Empathy Every Day

    October 3, 2024 - By 

    Empathy isn’t just a trait you’re born with; it’s a skill you can develop through everyday actions and decisions. Cultivating empathy enriches your interactions and deepens your connections. Here’s a straightforward guide to weaving empathy into your daily routine without repeating the same ideas. Listen Intentionally Listening is more than hearing words; it’s about fully engaging with the speaker. Practice giving your undivided attention, acknowledging what’s said, and asking questions to ensure clear understanding. Engage fully: Prioritize the conversation by eliminating distractions. Show engagement: Use nods, eye contact, and gestures to convey you’re listening. Clarify and summarize: Check your understanding…

  • Affirmations - Diva Mindset - Leadership

    Unlocking Your Inner Strength: The Power Within

    September 23, 2024 - By 

     We often look outside ourselves for motivation, believing that someone or something will light the spark that pushes us forward. But what if the strength you seek is already within you? Inner strength isn’t something bestowed upon you by life’s circumstances—it’s a resource you already have. It’s the quiet resolve that carries you through challenges, the voice that whispers, “You can do this,” when everything feels impossible.        Step 1: Trust Yourself So often, we second-guess ourselves, waiting for outside validation. But inner strength begins with trust. You’ve overcome obstacles before. You’ve made hard choices, and you’ve survived…

  • Empathy - Karma - Reflection

    Can You Wish Karma on Someone?

    September 21, 2024 - By 

    It’s tempting, isn’t it? Someone hurts you, and your first thought might be, “I hope karma gets them.” We’ve all been there, silently (or not so silently) wishing the universe would dish out some cosmic justice.  But here’s the thing: karma is not your personal hitman. It doesn’t work on command or in the way we might hope when we’re feeling wronged. Karma, in its truest form, is neutral. It doesn’t take sides. It’s not good or bad by nature, but simply a law of cause and effect. Put out negativity, you’ll likely get negativity back. Send out kindness, patience,…

  • Dream Interpretation - Highly Sensitive Person - Intuition

    Unlocking the Power of Everyday Symbols: A Guide to Intuitive Living

    September 18, 2024 - By 

    Have you ever found yourself seeing the same symbols pop up over and over again in your daily life? Maybe a bird catches your eye every morning, or you keep spotting the same number in unexpected places. What if I told you these little moments could carry deeper meaning, tapping into your intuitive side? Our intuition often speaks to us through symbols, but recognizing their importance and deciphering them is a skill that takes time and practice. Whether it’s in a dream, a fleeting thought, or an unexpected sighting, these symbols could be your inner guide trying to point you…

  • Diva Mindset - Karma - Morality

    Is Karma Real? A Philosophical and Theological Exploration

    August 26, 2024 - By 

    Karma—this ancient concept often evokes images of cosmic justice, where good deeds are rewarded and bad deeds are punished, sometimes in ways that seem eerily precise. But is karma just a spiritual fairy tale, or is there more to it? Let’s delve into some philosophical and theological proofs that suggest karma might be more than just a comforting idea. The Philosophical Perspective: Cause and Effect At its core, karma is about cause and effect. Philosophically, this idea aligns with what’s known as determinism—the belief that every event, action, or decision inevitably results from previous events in accordance with the natural…

  • Diva Mindset - Empath - Healthy Habits - Wellness

    Empaths Who Heal Themselves After Divorce: A Journey of Rediscovery

    August 22, 2024 - By 

      Divorce is like an earthquake. It shakes you to your core, leaving cracks in places you never knew could break. But for empaths, it’s not just an earthquake; it’s a tsunami of emotions, both yours and your ex-partner’s, crashing into your already sensitive soul. I know this because I’ve been there. When I first found myself alone after my divorce, I was overwhelmed by a mix of sorrow, guilt, and—ironically—relief. Being an empath, I had spent so much time absorbing my partner’s feelings that I had forgotten to take care of my own. I was the quintessential emotional sponge,…

  • Empath - Highly Sensitive Person

    If You Experience the World More Intensely Than Others

    August 12, 2024 - By 

    Have you ever felt like you experience the world more intensely than those around you? Maybe you’ve been told that you worry too much or that you need to stop overthinking things. As a child, perhaps you were labeled as “too sensitive,” with well-meaning adults advising you to toughen up or grow a thicker skin. If this resonates with you, then you might have spent years thinking there was something wrong with you. After all, society often values toughness over tenderness and logic over emotion. But what if I told you that your sensitivity isn’t a flaw but a powerful…